Thursday, November 15, 2007

Wealth Building For Ordinary People – Consider The Possibilities

Do you dream of becoming wealthy? Do you dream of creating a financial situation in your life that allows you to pay off all your debt, to purchase the things, the quality, the opportunities you really want? But then do you think that for you, creating a life of financial abundance, becoming wealthy, is just not something that's realistic or possible?

In order to begin to authentically build wealth in your life, you need to take a good look at your attitudes about, and relationships with money. As you grew up, did you witness your parents struggling to pay bills? Did you experience the stress of financial worries? Did you feel deprived of having the opportunity to go places or do things because your family couldn't afford it? Do you currently live in an environment that focuses on "lack" (Not enough money, not enough resources, not enough...)?

One of the basic building blocks for building wealth is that you first have to believe that wealth is a realistic possibility. Then you have to believe that it's possible for YOU.

Often, people will say that they want to build wealth, but their actions and behaviors demonstrate otherwise. We can say we're working toward establishing wealth and enjoying financial freedom, but in our actions we're continually sabotaging ourselves, creating opportunities for failure. If we say we choose wealth, but we live lives mired in borrowing and credit debt, then we're living a lie. If we say we choose wealth, but we hold on to each and every penny as if to let go would be the end of life itself, we are living a life of unbelief. If we say we choose wealth, but see our family, our neighbors, and our communities in need, and we're unwilling to contribute and support them in the material sense, we are living in fear; fear that what we give will never be replaced.

Do this today...sit down with a pen and a piece of paper and write down all of the feelings and emotions that you have related to wealth and money. Study them. What truths come through about how you relate to money and wealth? Now write down your definition of wealth. What is it that wealth means to you? It's not the same for everyone. Last, write down the things that you perceive as obstacles to you obtaining wealth. Then right down possible ways of surmounting those obstacles.

Will this suddenly make you wealthy? Of course it won't. But what it does do is to give you permission to begin considering the idea of becoming wealthy as a real possibility. Remember, before you can begin to achieve wealth, you have to believe that it's actually possible for YOU.

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